Retirement Talk for Boomers, Seniors, and Retirees |
Episode 157 From Career to Vocation
Young people
often don’t know very much about the world of work and may not see any
connection between life experience and education and their career. In a sense
our career begins in childhood and continues into our retirement years.
Concerned parents, teachers and friends can help us find our life work, our
vocation, even late in life.
In some cultures,
people are born into a class that does certain work. That work ranges from
medicine, religion, art, and administration to homelessness. Everyone knows his
or her position in the community and everyone knows what to do. It is security
without much choice.
Ours is a
highly mobile, democratic society where it is hard to predict where a small
child will live and work when he or she is grown. Our local paper mill closed
and moved away and 500 people were suddenly out of work.
I have
worked as a teacher and counselor in schools, a hospital, a correctional
facility, a sheltered workshop and a rehab center where we have tried to help
children and adults make good choices for their lives. The key question is not
“What is available?” or “What pays the most?” or “What do other people think?”
but “What do you want and need? What is your calling, your vocation?” For some
it is not a paying job at all. For Martin Luther King it led to martyrdom. For
Michael Moore it led to making a movie about his home town of
Religious
people sometimes feel a special calling or vocation but anyone can seek to
identify and follow such an impulse. Wealth and prestige are not the only
reasons for choosing an occupation. Teachers, social workers and nurses are
often strongly motivated to serve others.
A career can begin at any age. Bill Gates knew what he
wanted when he was a child and he has apparently achieved it. Retirement is a
good time to start for some. Jimmy Carter began building houses for the
homeless after his presidency.
In an earlier recession someone posted a sign on the bridge
from
We live in a
period of big changes. What is it that you think needs to be done and how can
you get started in a new direction? Is there something out there calling to
you? What can you do?
I enjoyed leading support groups as part of my rehab work and after retiring I continued to use that experience in more informal settings. I don’t always succeed but I think of myself as a listener, asking questions to help others express their ideas. It’s my vocation. I encourage people to talk in small groups of six or eight people who then report back to the larger group. It helps to free us from the experts and to take charge of their own lives. People remember what was said in small groups. The support of friends is essential as we continue our careers in retirement.