What
does it mean to live to a ripe old age? Young Gene died at age 11
and a recent news story talked of a man 110 years old taking a new wife
- age 30. What does all this mean concerning 'a ripe old age'?
'The Con' is something we have
to be concerned with all of our life. Here are a couple of
examples
that may remind us of the importance of not allowing ourselves to be
taken to the cleaners.
Grandfathers
should never argue with granddaughters. But on the value
of history a wide gap is developing between generations. Seniors need
to find ways to communicate our wisdom to the generations that
follow.
Retirement
brings lots of new opportunities. The Home Exchange network
is one.
You agree to trade the use of your residence for that of someone
else's. The trade is cash free.
Sometimes
it is better to let others make the mistakes; listen to
their stories and then move forward. Boomers and seniors have a lot to
share with younger generations that might be very rewarding.
Retirement
is often accompanied by an impulse to be close to our
children. The children, and/or the parents, find themselves considering
the means to reunite the family. What's to be said for moving or
staying put when it comes to reuniting the family?
Health
and the practice of Tai Chi keep being touted in the press.
Seeing the flowing beauty of actual Tai Chi can be memorable. Perhaps
more memorable that loosing one's wallet.
Why do
some of us devote so much of our time to being informed about
news and weather? Is this good use of our retirement time? Why do we do
this? What am I doing with the rest of my life?
Alarm
clocks can be bashed when one retires. Life can be lived without
alarms. One might also consider the onslaught of alarming news as well.
Perhaps it is time to temper or tame it.
Many of
us always claim that we want to get something done but just
never get it done. Could it be that we just need to establish
priorities? We need to shut things out of our lives and make room for
what we really do desire.
A recent
funeral I attended drew my attention to the need, or
opportunity, to plan my own funeral. It is more of a case of what you
might not want than what you want to have included.
Major
worries seem to follow us all the days of our lives: war,
pestilence, and famine. Is retirement a time when one might be allowed
a few moments of escaping this human condition?
Love
Trips refer to those trips we retired folks take to see our
grandchildren, children, or parents. We usually fly. Is that method of
transportation destined to end in light of global warming or climate
change? This threat is very much a possibility.
This
age of technology isn't easy for some of us. It requires that we
learn something new constantly. Of course, learning can be fun and the
world in which we live can be very exciting. Best to keep up than die
early.
'Freedom'
is a
word that is often used in conjunction with retirement.
For some, this freedom is appreciated and liberating. Other retirees
seem to be drowned in it. They can't move. What makes for these
apparently different results?
Enjoying
retirement is a result of many factors, the most important
being that death has not snatched us away earlier. If we escape it long
enough, we may enjoy retirement and a good story.
Social
isolation
is a major problem in retirement. We can loose all
emotional contact with people. Our dignity and sense of self worth can
force us to retreat. What to do?
Retirement
may be
a great time for having a dog. It can bring
companionship and serves as a reason for getting some exercise. On the
other hand, it may be the worst time to have a dog.
Reaching
retirement age has its benefits. Life experiences shape our
thinking. Political promises can appear transparent. Gun Control is a
perfect example.
Retirement
can be
a time of hesitation, retreat, and drift. Or it can
be a very busy time of doing exactly what you want. The key is to know
what you want.
Transportation
can
be a serious problem as we move into retirement
years. Getting to the store, post office, restaurant, etc. can be
challenging. How do we cope with getting around as we age?
A friend once said, "There are two kinds of people
ravelers and weavers. The raveling goes on without any help. I wonder if I can
weave fast enough to keep this old house in one piece.
Holidays
can be
trying times for the retired. We are supposed to enjoy
them. Best that we not get caught without a plan. A retirement plan
needs to include a section on holiday choices.
New
Year's
Resolutions are intended to help guide us through the year.
A
life list can do that on a much more grand scale. Retirement is a great
milestone when a new list might be in order.
Important
political issues are like elephants running through our
living room. They are massive, numerous and completely ignored. Truth
and common sense have taken on these elephant-like characteristics.
Habits
can take
control of our lives. We all have them. The trick is to
develop good ones rather than bad ones. Aristotle gave us some good
advice on this one.
Each
generation
seems to
have its
complaints
concerning the generation following. Understanding this common
condition may help us better manage our own views of human behavior.
Communicating
across generations is a challenge. We must all invent our
own methods. Computer kids pose unique challenges. We need a plan. This
retirement podcast tries to bridge the gap.
Traveling to
Alaska is one activity that
seems
to be
on many a retired folks list. The lure of the North and Arctic is
well founded. And the time to go will never be better than the present
moment. The journey is easier than you might think.
Retirement is
the time to actualize that long held dream. It fits with a Baby Boomer
lifestyle.
It
is easy to let things slide. The
paint on
the
house ages. The drapes fade and sag. The belt gets tighter around the
waist. Upkeep is need for the house, furniture, body and the mind.
Neglect upkeep and the slide into old age becomes all too evident
to everyone. Of course, some go beyond just keeping up to
actually improving. Life gets better!
Retirement
gives
us time to
examine
ourselves
better
than ever before in our lives. Living with tension in our
body
can be something that has developed over a lifetime. We may not be
aware of what has become "natural". Learning to
relax may
still be within our grasp.
We
all have moments when we think we
don't
have
enough friends. Where can we get some new friends? That is a question
that is often asked. Maybe if we look back we will find direction to
developing new friends. This retirement podcast offers a few
suggestions.
Technological
changes keep
coming at us.
Some
retired
folks give up. Does a senior lifestyle include ever changing? Should we
become exhausted
chasing something that never stops or kick back and let the
world roll on without us? Do any of these "technological gadgets"
really
help us older folks? Or are they all for kids?
From
birth to
death, music
is a part of
life.
The
love of one type of music seems to be ever changing. Is there yet
another door into the world of music? Perhaps retirement offers us
another, yet unexpected, opportunity to expand our
appreciation.
Retirement
and
birds: how do they fit together? When four
birds were killed by flying into my windows glass during
breakfast,
it got me thinking. Retirement may be a great time to speak up on
behalf of birds. However, this retirement podcast is not just for the
birds.
Physical
beauty is of paramount importance most of our lives. With age comes
retirement and hopefully wisdom. We learn that there are more important
attributes to beauty that the physical. This may be one of retirement's
greatest benefits.
Death
happens to each of us. Lying silently, tied to a container of
drugs, in a nursing home for days or weeks waiting for death to finally
end our pain is one way. There are many ways to die. Thinking and
talking about this process is something that is in short supply.
Retired
people like to eat. We have time and tastes that make good eating
possible. The problem: eating too much good food . It is easy to, "do
lunch". It is easy to linger over a good meal. It is easy to gain
weight and ruin our health.
Staying
fit is needed throughout life. Enjoyment of retirement calls for
special attention to this need. Luckily, we have a head start on all
other segments of society. We've had more practice.
Retired
people and seniors have experiences and knowledge that needs to be
shared. We all need to be heard and we all need to listen. Dick Smith
shares with us his current experience in a memoirs writing group for
seniors.
Having
a retirement of our own choosing is what most of us desire. We want
time in our life to do whatever we choose. Other people and events have
a way of under mining this dream of independence. We need all of
our resources to live the retirement we have always imagined.
Frustration
seems to be part of life. Retirement and being a Senior Citizen doesn't
make one immune to sleepless nights and worry over trivial
matters. Hopefully, with all of our life experiences, we can
manage it a bit better.
Suicide
is a topic that is rarely discussed and yet remains a very real
possibility. This retirement podcast is not taking an advocacy position
but is just relating the story of four people I know who have chosen
this path. It springs from retirement talk with some friends.
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