Episode 191
Meaning and Purpose
I stood in front
of “Down House” in
rural
This is
Retirement Talk. I’m Del
Lowery.
Like everyone
else I had heard about,
“The Origin of the Species”, throughout life. But I had
never met anyone who
had actually read the book. So, during the previous winter in
No one answered
my knock. Then I saw a
discrete sign posted next to the door. The home would open again at 2
o’clock.
I waited the 45 minutes. Not one person appeared; not one car passed
by; not
one dog came into the yard; nothing. My
mind wandered concerning how such a maelstrom of thought could have
emanated
from this serene, silent spot in the British country side. At 2
o’clock I
knocked again and a caretaker opened the door. He seemed surprised. He
looked both
ways for my car. I had walked the few kilometers from the train station
down
this empty, narrow country road lined with tall, green hedge. There was
no car.
I asked if I could visit the museum. I had read in a book that it was
part of
the British Trust – just like the
He held the door
wide; asked me to come
in, and said “give a shout if you needed anything”. Then he
bounded up the
stairs to the second floor. I was left
alone – in
The house had
every appearance of being
lived in. I moved like a shadow – silently peering into this case
and that –
here were the birds he had brought back on the Beagle. Here was his
chair and
writing board where he sat and composed his thoughts each day. Here
were his
pens, his books, his spectacles, etc. Here were a few glass cases with
some of his
personal letters and books. It was so.... silent.
The previous
winter I had also read
Loren Eiseley’s book “
What does this
have to do with
Retirement?
Giving meaning to
life is important for
all of us. We need to feel that we have something for which life is
worth
living. If ancient religion doesn’t provide it then something
else must. Some
of us choose to refuse logic and scientific thought and stay with our
historic
religion. Others of us take a more liberal approach and attempt to meld
the two
– science and religion. We rationalize or re-interpret
scripture,words or
religious passages. We compromise. Others of us discard the religion
all
together and then search for something to replace it. To give life
meaning
seems to be the ultimate goal. I’m not sure it matters much which
choice we
make.
And then today
this arrived in the
mail:
“Individuals
who have a strong sense of
meaning and purpose generally have better health, recover quicker from
illnesses, and typically live longer”.
This is a quote
from one of the many
health newsletters we receive. It is a publication from the Wellness
Council of
America. We need a meaning that is strong not just some weakly held
belief.
What to do? We
will continue this topic
in coming episodes.
This is
Retirement Talk.
This is a revised
edition of episode
20. I thought it worth revisiting. I hope you do too.
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